Okay, so I have a question. I'm Ti, Tai, whatever you wish and I'm genderqueer. When I put my gender on 'male' (which I'm more comfortable with) at FB, I get shit with my family and when it's on female I feel bad about it myself. I tried doing the video and it works, but as soon as I have saved the third option it simply changes back to my previous selected option (which is either male of female). Do you also have this problem? I fear that FB removed the gender neutral options from their script.
When I did it, which was a good while ago, I spent an hour or more fiddling with it. If you’ve only tried it one way, try changing something else and seeing if that works. If you wanted, and can’t figure it out on your own, if you give me your facebook info I could try and change it for you (only if you’re comfortable). I’d love to help you out. I know I hated how some of my friends had gender neutral and I was stuck with either male or female pronouns… neither which I was comfortable with.
Let me know how it goes and if there is anything further I can help with!
Anybody else having this issue??—having tried it recently? Any tips?
Just saw your post about your friend, sending thoughts your way. I have loved alcoholics and that is something I can't imagine, I hope things are ok. Are the authorities looking for him?
Yeah.. I know his mom is talking to the Sheriff right now. I’m 4.5 hours away and can’t really do anything. So many people are looking for him right now, so that makes me relieved a little bit… but I know how he is when he drinks… and before, when he lived here in Milwaukee, he had roommates, so he was always around somebody… but now, no one knows where he is and he could be dead for all we know.
I don’t know the specifics on anything. If the news stations from home posts anything on the details his mom gives them, then I’ll post a more detailed message seeing if anybody around there coud help look for him.
He is an alcoholic and has been trying to become sober the past 5 or 6 months. I was just recently informed that he started drinking again only a few weeks ago. Well, he has been missing since Monday. He hasn’t been to work or spoken/texted/messaged anyone since then. I know he is on a bender, but being as nobody knows where he is and that he doesn’t gauge his alcohol consumption when he’s black-out drunk, and just keeps drinking, makes me supremely worried.
Everybody is home looking for him, but I’m so far away and can’t help… If any of you pray, or send good vibes in the direction of others, PLEASE—He/I/We could really use your help in those ways.
I’m just hoping he is only blacked out and hasn’t drank himself to death…. :’(